Are You an Enemy of the Cross?

In Philippians 3, Paul writes to the church that there are those who are enemies of the cross. One identifying mark he gives for these individuals is that “they set their minds on earthly things” (Phil. 3:19). So it begs the question: are you an enemy of the cross? Am I?

In Colossians 3, Paul says, “If then you were raised with Christ, seek those things which are above, where Christ is, sitting at the right hand of God. Set your mind on things above, not on things on the earth.” These verses in Philippians 3 and Colossians 3 have one big theme in common: above = Christ, earthly = enemy of Christ.

So how can we know if we’re enemies of the cross of Christ? How can we know if our minds are set on earthly things, or if our minds are in the right place — focused on Jesus?

If you keep reading in Colossians 3, Paul/the Holy Spirit gives us some clarification. In verse 5, Paul writes that those who have their mind set on Jesus won’t participate in fornication (engaging in any form of sexual acts outside of the God-approved marriage bed), uncleanness, passion, evil desire (see Romans 1:26-32), and covetousness. It seems from these verses (as well as a host of others in the New Testament) that if you’re practicing any of these things, you are not being pleasing to God, but rather fall in the category of one who is an enemy of the cross.

However, it isn’t simply sexual sins that make you an enemy of the cross. In Colossians 3:8-9, Paul writes that “anger, malice, blasphemy, filthy language, and lying” are also in direct opposition to what it means to be a disciple of Jesus. Instead, these things show that we are still living life as the ‘old man’ – the earthly, carnal man.

So those are the negatives. If any of these things characterize your life, it’s an indicator that your life may be more earth-centered and less Christ-centered. Fortunately, while there is still today, you have time to repent. You have time to change your mind…to set it on heavenly things. To think on things that are “true, lovely, and of good report” (Phil. 4:8). You aren’t stuck being earthly-minded. You don’t have to stay an enemy of the cross.

The truth is, all of us, at one point in time, have been enemies of the cross of Jesus. We have all done something (or lots of somethings as is the case for me) that sent Jesus to the cross. We have all sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). Thankfully, though, God did send Jesus to the cross, even while we were still enemies, so that we could have a way of escape.

So if you want to stop being an enemy of the cross – if you want to stop living for the world and start living for Jesus – just do what Paul said in Col. 3:12- 17. Put on tender mercies, kindness, humility, meekness and long-suffering. Bear with your fellow man and forgive him as Christ forgave you. Put on love. Let the word of Christ dwell in you. And, whatever you do, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus.

The easiest way to identify yourself as an enemy of the cross is to let the world set up shop in your heart. Don’t let that be said of you. Instead, fill your heart with the word of Jesus, and may your life be obedient to His every command.

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  1. So I’ve struggled with sexual sin and and empty callous heart for a while. Idk what to do my girlfriend is kind of the same we have not had sex but want to elope knowing full well what God expects for marriage so that we won’t be tempted anymore. Any advice welcome. I need repentance also I’m just so emotionally void at times that is hard.

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    • I am so sorry you are struggling so deeply with sin in your relationship. My advice is this: you must learn to have self-control. While getting married might solve the fornication issue at this point, it won’t be helpful to not have self-control. You’ll need it in order to conquer your temper, selfishness, family conflicts, hurtful speech, and spending. Not to mention, continuing to abstain from sexual sin (because temptations – read: pornography, adultery, etc. – don’t leave just because you get married). Marriage is SUCH a huge deal to God. It is an unbreakable covenant that you enter in with Him and your spouse. Getting into such a serious covenant requires serious thought. If you and your girlfriend are considering marriage anyway, keeping yourself from a long engagement might be beneficial for your spiritual health. However, learning to control your lusts will ultimately be the best for both of you. Keeping yourself from unwholesome situations (being alone, etc) will help you control yourselves, and finding others to be accountability partners with will also help.

      Know this: the most dangerous thing you’re dealing with is the calloused heart. If you will fall more in love with God than with your girlfriend (which I had a very difficult time with when it came to my now husband), it will help you understand that you’re hurting Him when you commit sinful acts. Spend time praying (by yourself and with your girlfriend), spend time studying about Jesus and what He went through so you might be free from sin, and ask Him for strength and wisdom. And if you need someone to talk to, you can always email me emily@emilyhat.com or send my husband an email robert@thelightnetwork.tv.

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